Sushi date with our girls at a more “traditional” Japanese restaurant.

With Benz being a baby and requiring a lot of attention, we decided the girls too need some alone time with their parents. Until Benz, it was just the four of us for the longest time so Dick and I took the girls out to dinner one Friday night and left Benz home with my parents.  What did the girls want to eat? Sushi! And they wanted to go to this one restaurant we took them to long ago that had more “traditional seating”.

It’s been a while since we had been to this restaurant so we thought we would do a “drive-by” first to see what the parking lot looked like. Don’t tell me you’ve never done that.

If on a Friday night and the lot was empty, we were going to another place. It wasn’t empty so we decided to go in.

Inside, most of the customers appear to all be Japanese. A very good sign.And, the place  looked different than before and I was impressed at how nicely decorated and zen it was!

And here’s the traditional seating I was speaking of. They girls like the low tables that make it seem like you’re sitting on the floor. This is actually a pit where your feet can still go under the table and you don’t have to sit “indian style” (difficult for those who are less flexible.)

Last time we were here, this seating area was closed off and had a screen door around the room, making it very claustrophobic.

Now, instead of the screens, they put up a decorative wall, making it still very private but not cramped. Lovely.

Initially, we had all climbed inside to sit but then remembered that tradition when sitting at these types of Japanese tables, it is customary to remove your shoes as a sign of respect (and cleanliness).

So, off came the shoes.

Dang, I was not prepared. I was wearing boots over my skinny jeans, and had white socks pulled high over them. Luckily, my feet will go in the pit where no one will see them.

That was one thing I always had to remember in Japan…make sure your feet are nicely pedicured and that your socks don’t have holes in them!

The menu has more traditional items like Katsu-don, Yakisoba or Donburi...items that you wouldn’t ordinarily find at a sushi restaurant these days…which are mostly not even owned by Japanese people!

Look, they even have Sauteed Beef Tongue Tang. Oops, someone made a typo.

I know for some of you Beef Tongue may sound disgusting (and it looks disgusting when you see it raw and unsliced) but they way the Japanese prepare it, it’s very tasty!

What else to drink but Hot Green Tea and Sake!

The girls love California rolls and salmon!!

Turns out, I know the Sushi Chef here. Back when I was in college, I worked as a server in a Japanese restaurant and he was the Sushi Chef back then. Funny running into him nearly 15 years later.

Dick saw that they had takoyaki (Pronounced “tah-ko-yah-key”), which are Japanese Octopus balls...not the balls of an Octopus but Octopus that has been grounded and blended with flavor, shaped into a ball and breaded, fried and topped with a tasty mayo and sauce. Really yummy!

I love fried calamari legs, called Geso (Pronounced “gay-s0″) so I had to order some.

This is a tofu dish called Agedashi Dofu (Pronounced “Ag-ah-dah-shee D0-fu”) which is fried tofu and served with a tangy sauce.

Those were just some of the things we had. And at the end, similar to how the Chinese give you a treat with your bill (fortune cookie), we got these Japanese Gums. The Japanese really know how to make yummy candy…these were so good!

It was a super dinner with our lovely girls. They deserved it so much. I have the best daughters ever who are so wonderful with their little brother and love and care for him so much. They are great helpers and I am very thankful to have them.

I just adore my girls!

And they’re growing so fast!

-Jane, Mommy to Lovely Ladies.

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Headband Siblings. He works hard for his money!

Flashback to Flashdance and the days of headbands.

My girls never cease to want to embarrass and torture their little bro.

He works hard for his money!

So hard for it honey!

He works hard for his money so you better treat him right!

Poor thing.

The lighting in this picture is not flattering for Benz’s hair.

Looking like a balding old man!

Good thing he doesn’t understand anything right now.

Wait till he gets older, girls…I’m sure there will be paybacks!

-Jane, Mommy to Head-band Benz.

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A match for my New Year’s frame.

We had so much fun painting on New Year’s that I decided to make a match for the first frame.

The girls wanted to paint something else as well.

So as they painted, I made a mate for my frame.


I likes! Now where to put them!

-Jane, Ah-Tiste.

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Your Daily Benz: Muscular Benz.

Benz loves to stand and climb and gets quite the leg workout these days.

 He even goes so far as to stand on this tippy-toes.

This is not ballet!

Check out those swexy muscular calves!

Daddy’s hoping these are soccer calves.

-Jane, Mommy to Muscular Benz.

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Honey, I wanna be a desperate housewife!

I know it’s been a while since I’ve posted anything. I’m a blogging LOSER these days and APOLOGIES! I can’t seem to find the time or energy to blog these days. (That being said, I’m so appreciative that our loyal Jane and Dick fans still visit our site daily and even read our old stories!)

With Benz being on the move crawling, standing, wobbling…I find I am on HIS schedule and with everything else we always have going on, there’s no time and no energy. Whereas before I could wake up in the middle of the night daily to blog, as you can see, those are few and far between even though I’m blogging right now at 5AM. This is the first time in a while that I’ve had this opportunity.

I tell Dick, “I’m in full-time Mommy-mode so have very low expectations of me.” Much of my time is spent feeding the family, including being a boobie-machine for Benz. Sounds simple but making three meals a day (sometimes) and cleaning up in between is enough to keep me busy ALL DAY and yet have nothing to show for it other than saggy, deflated boobs and an occasionally clean kitchen…oh yeah, and a family that is still alive and well.

And as under appreciated as it is, I have a newfound appreciation for just taking care of, cooking and cleaning for my family…that I don’t want the stress of “work”.

So one day, after Dick uttered these vicious words to me: “We have work to do.”

Ahhhhhh! WORK! One of the most vicious 4-letter words! I just don’t like that word right now. I hate it when he says we have WORK to do. I don’t know why, it just makes me cringe. Anyway, so I say,

Honey, I want to be a housewife. I’m ready to be a desperate housewife.” (BTW, I don’t watch that series but I’ve caught a glimpse here and there. Those chicas are loco!)

He laughs, “No, you have to work!” (He says…half jokingly.)

I tell him, “I want to be like those other Persian wives who just go shopping all day, travel and decorate their house.”

He laughs. He knows how lucky he has it that I’m not some high-maintenance, materialistic wife who just spends and spends. As we do, we always remind the other how lucky they are. I tell him all the time, shaking my head, tisking…“You are so lucky to have me.” And he knows it. That being said, I’m a very lucky woman myself. He’s the best husband and father, even though sometimes I have to break out my crazy Jane on his ass.

Anyway, in closing, I have a Yo-Momma joke that goes with this story: “Yo Momma’s so stupid she thinks a two-income household is where yo daddy works TWO jobs.”

I tell Dick, that’s me, I wanna be that stupid.

-Jane, Wanna-be Desperate Housewife.

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A grandpa that changes diapers?!?! Freddie Mac, hands-on Grandpa!

My dad ADORES his grandchildren and he LOVES babies. It’s because babies like to do the same thing as my dad…sleep, chill in bed, eat. My mom thinks it’s really funny because she complains that when Lucy and I were babies, he wasn’t as nearly hands-on as he is now. Of course, I think that just comes with being a Grandparent anyway.   When you’re the parent, you’re busy working, making ends meet, managing family life…whereas as a grandparent, you have the time to REALLY enjoy kids.

One of the things that surprises my mom the most is that my dad will actually change diapers if need be (which means when my mom or I are not around to do it), which I guess he was not inclined to do when Lucy and I were small. Freddie Mac is an awesome grandpa, willing to babysit any time. In fact, if it’s been a few days since he’s seen the baby, he goes through baby withdrawal and will call me up and ask me if I need a babysitter. He’ll even shop around for clothes for the baby. Super cute!

Anyway, the other day when my dad’s cries that the baby needed changing came unanswered (LOL-purposefully), he decided to take it upon himself to get the job done. Naturally, I ran along with my camera instead of helping.

In our house, we don’t really use wipes. I don’t feel like they really get the baby’s bottom clean. A good washing with warm water is what is needed. Especially with the kind of sticky, gooey poopies he’s been having. Egghhhh!

It’s a good thing babies are flexible.

Benz is all folded up! LOL!

Freddy Mac washes…

Then dries…

Vaseline…pat pat…

And now time for the diaper. He had it backwards at first with the velcro tabs in the front so I had to switch it around for him.

Not exactly perfect but Freddy Mac manages to get the diaper on.

The biggest challenge, however, is getting the squirmy baby to stop moving so he can button up the onesie.

Come on, you can do it!

You wouldn’t think three simple snap-on buttons would be such a struggle.

Benz just wants to roll over.

Okay fine, then let’s just button them this way.

Good job Grandpa!

Love my dad.

-Jane, Daughter to Awesome Grandpa.

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Finally, after two years…Christmas with the family.

Alright, so I’m going out of order but here are some pictures of our Christmas last week. For me, the best part of Christmas is not about the presents but having family get together. I’m excited to have my family together since last year my parents, sister, and aunt all left me to go to Vietnam. And, the year before that, we had spent Christmas in LA with Dick’s family.

Guess who’s in town for the holidays?

It’s Queen Latifa!! And, we’re getting to meet her boyfriend of a year for the first time! I have to tell you, I really like this one because he makes her smile and he genuinely cares and respects her. It’s so cute to see her with him, she’s like a schoolgirl all over again. Lucy and I laugh at how funny they are when they flirt together. I guess that’s what it’s like when you fall in love in your 50s. Yeah, can you believe it? Queenie is 55 next year!

Of course, Lucy is also in town for the holidays. Yay!

Somebutty got a little tired whilst wrapping gifts.

I’m guilty of taking a nap or two here and there too.

The weather has just been coma-tising.

At least my eyes aren’t half open and mouth agape in this one.

Christmas Eve and the girls have camped out in the living room by the Christmas tree with my cousins. They’re all tangled together. LOL

I remember when we were growing up, Lucy and I always loved camping out by the tree because it was so beautifully lit and we wanted to be close to all the presents.

Talk about presents. That’s what happens when you have a big family.

The kids were ready to open presents first thing in the morning but because all the adults weren’t up yet, we made them suffer and wait. So cruel, I know. Whatever, patience is a fine virtue.

PRESENTS

Finally, everyone is up and it’s time to open presents.

The first to open a gift is none other than the baby! It’s Benz’s first Christmas.

Louise wants him to just tear into it.

The girls picked out their own gifts to give everyone this year…

And even paid for some of it with their own money!

Like the heart necklace they gave Queenie.

And a shirt for Queenie’s BF.

Thelma bought these shades for Daddy.

Louise picked out this frame for Grandma, which she loved.

I was going to pick something less ornate but they definitely know their Grandma’s style.

My cousin gave Queenie and her BF pics of them together.

The kids also bought a set of knives for Queenie.

Which, according to superstition, you are not allowed to GIFT anyone knives or guns (lest they be used on you), so Queenie paid for it in return with a penny.

Pillows for Auntie, cause she needed them.

Thelma even had a gag gift for us, TWIN DOLLS…since me and seester are always talking about being TWEENZ.

Look how happy my aunt looks. Love it! She SO deserves it.

I love my baby’s sweet heart-shaped tongue.

And I adore my girls. They are growing into such lovely ladies.

I’m also glad my cousins got to spend Christmas with us. Their parents had to go to Toronto because their brother will be having another baby soon so they braved the cold to go help him.

My mom’s so cute, she got all the men a similar striped sweater.

Benz’s fave gift was given by Grandma.

Already crawling and pulling himself up, this activity table is great.

Really a fantastico Christmas with the family.

All the ladies in our plaid jammies and Benz.

(My mom’s side of the family is mostly women so Benz will be used to be around the ladies.)

Hope you all had a spectacular Christmas!!

XOXO

-Jane, Lover of having the Family together.

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A super chill Artsy New Year’s with my three kids.

As with most New Year’s, I don’t do much but just chill at home. For some reason, I just don’t like being out when I know so many people are out there drinking and driving. I don’t think I’ve ever done it BIG for New Year’s. Maybe one year Dick and I went to downtown Metropolis to see them drop this ridiculous pseudo “ball drop” like the one in NY, except, it’s nothing like  New Years in New York. Plus, this year, Dick had to be in Gotham City to work at our Lounge since we were expecting it to be busy with New Year’s revelers.

So, I was looking forward to a very low-key New Year’s Eve with my family.

(BTW, I know I’m going out of order cause I haven’t even blogged about Xmas but whatever, I will be posting pics from Christmas too.)

We hit the park earlier in the day because it was a beautiful, spring-like day, unlike the last week which had been overcast or rainy over Christmas (Hence my slacking and blahness to blog.)

Because I knew we’d be chilling at home, I thought it would be nice for me and the girls to do an art project since it’s been a while. So, we had bought some art supplies at Walmart.

Louise and I were going to paint these simple wooden picture frames and Thelma wanted to paint a memory box for her “special” stuff. We’re at my parents house, who are fast asleep with the baby because it’s now about 10pm. I feared I might miss the countdown as I was getting somewhat sleepy myself.

However, after we got started, second wind hit and I was excited to be painting.

I started off using one of my favorite bluish colors.

And Thelma with her favorite…green.

Louise is using a metallic light green. We love green!!

Okay, so the base color is painted and I have NO IDEA what to do now. So, I go to my computer for inspiration. I look at all kinds of pictures and finally decided upon one that I liked.

I found this one picture of red poppies that I liked.

I then used a pencil to draw a light sketch of the flowers.

Louise finishes early…using a metallic purple and silver to accent her frame.

And Thelma decides to use my blue to compliment her green. It looks great! And actually, it looks alot like the colors of their room. Blue and green go so fantastically together.

Meanwhile, I’m still working on mine.

And then, about 30 minutes before midnight, guess who wakes up right in time to ring in the new year!

I finish up my picture frame and am super happy with how it turned out!

Let’s see…why yes, I think this will look just spectacular!

I had so much fun painting this one that I might need another to go with it!

It’s now countdown time and we’re all on the sofa bed in front of the TV at my parent’s house. My and my kids…the most perfect way I could think of to ring in the new year. Dick called right before the countdown and sent us his love and kisses. Vietnamese superstition is that however you start off the new year will set the tone for the entire year so I’m glad to start it off having a fabulous time with family.

We counted down with Kathy Griffin and Anderson Cooper.

They are so funny together!

HAPPY NEW 2012 FOLKS!!

Wishing everyone a year full of LOVE, PEACE, AND HAPPINESS!!

And hopefully it’s not the end of the world, like the Mayans think!

(I don’t really think so but…who knows. Just don’t go out there and blow your whole savings like some of those crazies who thought it would end this year.LOL)

-Jane, Hopeful for a Promising 2012.

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Photo Shoot: The story of Mama Bear, Papa Bear and Ickle Me, Pickle Me, and Tickle Me too!

I had a photo shoot the other day where this time, I was the photographer. One of my clients had contacted me to update their family photos because their family had expanded from having two boys (one biological and one adopted since he was weeks old) to just having adopted a daughter from Ethiopia.

I always have so much respect for those that adopt and that go through all that one does in order to adopt. I think it takes a very special person to care and love a child that is not biologically yours. Adoption is no longer that secret that your parents kept from you until you were old enough…it’s quite common these days and has gotten much more attention with celebrities like Angelina Jolie, Katherine Heigel, Mia Farrow adopting children from other countries. I have several friends that have adopted children and our homeschool co-op has multiple families who have adopted.

From what I hear, it is easier to adopt abroad because local adoptions in our state require a period of foster care prior to any adoptions. That means, you could potentially have the child for a period of time and have that child removed to be back with their parents…even if it’s been years. OMG, I just could not imagine caring for a child and then having to let them go. Hence, I am not a good candidate for foster parenting.

There is also an option for Closed Adoptions…a type of adoptions where the adopting parents and birthing parents never meet or know little to nothing of the other. And in our state, if you adopt an infant, you do not have to go through a foster care period.

THE PARENTS

The parents are a lovely couple where Mama Bear works in pharmaceutical sales and Papa Bear works for the University in Fundraising.

Super cute.

 THE KIDS

Meet their kids…

Ickle Me, Pickle Me, and Tickle Me too.

Now aren’t they just adorbs?!?!?

ICKLE ME

Ickle Me is the eldest and is their biological son.

Ten and  has such a classic all-American look.

Seriously, Gap Kids, you need to call this kid.

PICKLE ME

Pickle Me was adopted when he was a few weeks old from a local adoption center. Isn’t he just the cutest five-year old ever?

I was surprised to learn from their parents that Pickle Me is actually of mixed race…half African American, half Caucasian!

He’s so dang edible!

TICKLE ME TOO

And meet dear Tickle Me. Adopted only four months ago and after two trips to Ethiopia, Mama Bear and Papa Bear came home with a beautiful four-year old girl.

Mama Bear tells me that there are 5 million orphans in Ethiopia and about 500,000 in all of the US…so there is an incredible need in third world and extremely impoverished countries!

Since only being here a short time, Tickle me speaks some English but she’s learning quickly.

Did you notice those beautiful eyes of hers? What seems to be extra long eye lashes are actually tribal burns from when she was an infant.

Despite that, look how sweet and happy she is!

That pretty smile on her face says it all.

THE FAMILY

The shoot took place at their home. Shooting at someone’s home is really special because it’s where they are most comfortable and hold all their memories.

I may have mentioned before, very little to no planning happens when I go in for a shoot. Shoots are very organic and evolve as we go depending on the lighting, environment, and how artistically I see the photos come about in my head. I shoot hundreds of images and edit all the ones I feel are worthy.

I’ll also take feedback from the client as to certain shots and images they want captured or certain things that are meaningful to them…like Mr. Penguin!

Or basketball in the house!

How about a little one on one…

MAKING COOKIES

Making cookies seems to be quite popular for a lot of my shoots.

My clients just love that idea because it’s a FAMILY AFFAIR.

 

 The kids love making cookies…

They most certainly love eating cookies….

And they’re not the only ones…ahem Mama Bear and Papa Bear.

HAPPY FAMILY

Yes, you can tell, this is one loving and happy family.

Seriously, could I have gotten any more pics? And this is only a “few” of the 140 edited ones!

I love that I can use my photography to tell people’s stories because we’re all different, yet we are all the same. Thank you for letting me come into your home, capture these special moments for your beautiful family and share your story.

-Jane, Journalistic Photographer.

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Santa Baby eats the steering wheel!

Having a baby makes me super lazy to run into the store. It’s never a quick in and out. So, when the girls needed a couple of items for their homeschool co-op cooking class, I sent them in with some money and told them to get what they needed while Benz and I chill in the car. The girls are old enough that they are more than capable and it teaches them how to shop for themselves. Yes, as I always say, lazy parents make for independent kids.

Plus, I’m still in my jammies and I don’t want to get out…not that being my jammies would stop me from going out in public.

Obviously, Benz doesn’t want to be in his car seat so I let him sit on Mommy’s lap.

Benz is in the Holiday Spirit and is sporting his Santa costume. It was among a box of clothes one of my friends gave me. I like to use it as a coat to throw on top of his clothes and keep him warm.

Benz then decides he’s tired of sitting and so now wants to drive.

Can’t you just see him making those car noises like he’s shifting gears?

He’s got that guilty/innocent look on his face.

“Whhaaattt???”


But then I realize he doesn’t want to drive, he wants to eat the steering wheel!

Yes, if you don’t have a teething ring, just use a steering wheel.

Works fabulously.

When I try to get him to stop, Benz just gives me the hand.

Okay Santa Baby! It’s a good thing you’re cute!

No butty gives me the hand!

-Jane, Mommy to Santa Baby.

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